This is complete transparency here, but the former version of me, would have used her sexually, and not realize how messed up the relationship was emotionally.
However, I was in a transitional period when we met. It was the onset of my transformation, but something about her provided a deeper incentive to evolve. She did not try to change me—I evolved because of her. A man can and will mature into a better version of himself, but only when he is ready.
By trying to force the issue, it is unlikely to work, but also, it is likely to create contention. You may try to change the way that he dresses, his friends, what he likes to do in his spare time, etc. There is a difference between me sharing my love of comic books with my wife, with that of forcing the topic of comic books and graphic novels in her life.
There is a difference with my wife sharing a new artist in a music genre, to forcing it down my throat. You eventually develop some of the interests of your partner, but you should reject the idea of wanting to change him. Consider ending the notion that I can, and I will change him. I cannot speak for all males, but more often than not, the behavior is not a welcoming one. Relationships are not easy, especially when you are trying to initiate the process.
I cannot tell you what works best for you, because only you can make this assessment, through various trials and tribulations. What I can suggest is being as honest about who you are, in comparison to fabricating a fairy tale version of who you want to be. The current version of you may not be the best possible version, which you can develop into over time, but for the moment, it is the best that you have. Love yourself first, because until you embrace the current you , you cannot have a successful relationship with someone else. Happiness begins from within, and until you come to terms with this understanding, you will continue seeking this awareness from external forces.
When things go wrong in heterosexual relationships, it appears socially acceptable to place all the blame on men. Reject this notion and take ownership of your faults, whatever they may be. However, this is my perspective. I am far more interested in yours.
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What else would you add? Do you love to write? If you have a story, article, post about dating or love, please Share your Heartbeat! We would love you feature your writing. I think this is a fair list. Lying never works out in the end, even if it seems easy at the time.
I am a curvy woman and I do show a full length photo of myself. Women need to be more confident and believe they are worthy. I think that one should just be a rule for both sexes,lol. This is quite interesting. Definitely thought provoking while not being a cure all as there are lots of other things that can affect how a relationship evolves. You are commenting using your WordPress. You are commenting using your Twitter account.
Case in point, a lot of men are willing to stay in loveless marriages, more women initiate divorces in them. Men will stay because they feel like they have to honor the commitment --they made a promise type thing and doing what's best for their family They don't give a sht about that stuff, they're unhappy, so they want out. Women are fickle, emotionally unstable creatures. Originally Posted by liuzhoudragon.
It's probably a throw back mechanism from the cave man days. Find a cave man who has his own cave crib, access to fresh water, and can catch lots of fish, giant mice or whatever they ate back then. Man breaks his foot while hunting, he's out of commission for at least a month Find another cave man. Leave broken foot cave man to die by himself. It's a harsh World out there.
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You do realize divorce stats alone proves your argument invalid. If there are women who don't do this, they are the minority, not the majority. Originally Posted by Contribution I actually have had issues with this with some girls.
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When i like a girl, i'm willing to put up with some negatives as long as i feel the positives greatly out weight the negatives. And if i get upset at the girl, ya i'm angry at her, but my thoughts aren't "i don't love you anymore" where i feel like with girls, you step on 1 wrong crack it can literally end the relationship right then and there. Or if its something minor, it can still end the relationship because they wont bother telling you the problem and then they just decide that they aren't getting enough and end it and THEN tell you what the problem was, and it ends up being something stupid that if you knew sooner could of been rectified.
So OP, if women are fickle Originally Posted by Molec. Cultivate your alpha aspects, and you will have no problems She will still want your cock. Expect unconditional love only from your mother, twin sister or other siblings. Just because a woman hates you doesnt mean you cant get it. Listen up I roll 30 deep Not all women are like this but a good majority are. Men tend to stick with someone even if she cant support him or whatever rare case when the woman is the provider.
A woman will drop a man in a heartbeat if a man cant support her. You're right, a woman's love is conditional based upon a lot of things or at least it should be when we love ourselves , but a man's love is only based on looks and sex. You wear a rubber?
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Originally Posted by Lottabody. They love constantly spending time with their "so", texting a lot, and they feel sexual attraction to the guys they date, and it doesn't go away. The only guy I probably felt romantic and sexual around was my hs sweetheart. And it lasted for the better part of 6 out of the 8 years we were together. He was my first and the only guy I've been with sexually, I was never able to orgasm with him either.
He tells me I am cold and he said it throughout our relationship--that it seemed like I was detached at times.
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On the same hand the number one thing guys tell me is that I am the sweetest, most innocent woman they have met. So that is what confuses me? My mom, had the same issue, she was often accused of being cold at times or just not caring at all But she was told a great mom and was sweet. I'm wondering if this is just me--that I no longer have the ability to love or be attracted to a man the way I was with my hs sweetheart when I was younger.
Women's feelings are CONDITIONAL when it comes to love, like, and dating.
It just seems too easy for me to get turned off. I don't know if this is normal or if I'm selfish or just very fickle. My friends have always just chalked it up to m being a Gemini but I think that the whole horoscope thing is silly. Is anyone else like this? Is something wrong with me? Excuse any typos on my iphone. Originally Posted by Magnolia Bloom. Maybe you are pushing yourself to move too quickly in a relationship.