I am over When it comes to dating, it can be difficult to find someone who understands your needs. You've likely tried every other site that caters to meeting disabled singles and had no luck finding that special someone. You may have even found that special someone, or so you thought. Either way, your experiences just haven't worked out yet.
You're likely starting to wonder if you're ever going to find that someone special who understands you. Well you don't need to wonder anymore. In fact, we're positive! We have many members who are looking for someone just like you. These members understand that you may have certain limitations.
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At the same time, they are happy to experience who you are. It's free to join us, so you might as well take the site on a test drive. You'll never know the amazing people you can meet if you give it a try.
In , we opened up WheelchairDatingClub. Your love life should be mobile, even if you aren't!
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The goal of our site is to give each and every one of you a comfortable dating experience. We aim to provide a safe and secure environment for you to get to know one another. We recognize that your mobility doesn't define you as a person. We want to give each of you opportunities that other dating sites can't provide; an understanding. As we understand you may have different needs, so do the other members on our site. Here, you can look forward to a blossoming relationship. You can get excited about finding love with someone who understands you in a way that others might not.
This is the ideal of our website. On Wheelchair Dating Club, it's easy to browse through the members of the site.
Top dating, relationship and sex tips for wheelchair users
From our large catalogue of singles, you're bound to have someone catch your eye. We made it easy for you to get in touch with anyone who peaks your interest. We want you to branch out. So you may need to tweak these tips to apply them to your specific situation. But these will give you a springboard to finding the right partner and enjoying sex. These might be focused on dating, or on leisure activities.
Facebook is a good place to start — lots of local groups are formed that way — or try the website Meet Up. We have regular meetups across the UK, as well as online chat groups.
Of course, meeting somewhere accessible for you is key. Be open and honest about your requirements. If your date also has access requirements, work together to decide what would suit you both best.
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For example, you could have a drink or dinner, or go to the cinema where there is wheelchair-accessible space next to an additional seat. Make sure your date knows about it beforehand though. If they seem curious, encourage them to ask questions. Be open and relaxed about it — the more uninhibited you are about your wheelchair, the less they will be. If they seem receptive, invite your date to take your hand, or otherwise guide it.
It may be difficult to be hugged in your wheelchair. Again, be open and tell them to lean forward to hold you as close as they can. One person, for example, may have more feeling in their upper body nipples, mouth etc and another may have very sensitive legs but have no feeling in their genitals. You may find this out by yourself, but probably not — it needs to be talked about. There are erogenous zones in the earlobes and on the nape of the neck, so a head massage is a great way to feel stimulated.
Have you considered sex or foreplay in your chair, or even your hoist? What about having your partner laid on the bed while you stay in your chair pleasuring them? Explore this with your partner — it might make it even more fun. But why not make a game of it? Maybe plan to be waiting for your partner in bed naked after your PA has got you ready?
Or how about asking them to help you get ready for sex one night, instead of a PA? Plan in time to do this and who will help you — your PA or partner. Talk about what would suit both of your needs best. Also, plan for what will happen after sex.
For example, will you need to go to the toilet again? Having tissues or a bottle next to the bed means the transition after sex will be less clunky. Could your partner sit on you? Can your hands be placed in position?