December 13, It has nothing to do with age and everything to do with the couple in question. December 14, 1: So, everyone has heard of a 25 year old guy marring a 19 year old girl, and thought nothing. Or a 24 year old guy marrying a 26 year old girl. At what point do you start wondering if everything is ok? How about 28 year old guy and 19 year old girl?
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How about 20 year old guy and 25 year old girl? My 30 year old friend married a 20 year old girl. December 14, 2: My 58 year old great-grandfather married my 28 year old great-grandmother. And my mother is four years older than my father, too. Health — Hey, I have no objection. It really comes down to compatability and level of maturity, not age. December 14, 3: December 14, 6: I personally know Two couples where the boy was and the girl was 27 yrs. December 14, 4: December 14, 5: This reminds me of an Readers Digest anecdote. December 14, 7: December 14, 8: December 15, 1: August 4, 2: Patur Aval Assur Participant.
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August 4, 4: August 4, 8: You must be logged in to reply to this topic. January 17, 7: January 17, 5: January 17, 1: Powered by Duvys Media. Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. I'm the end though, I was still a total shithead at 21, and I still generally find 21 year olds too annoying to spend any serious amount of time with.
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Yeah I hear ya on the annoying thing propensity for college-age people to be annoying and whatnot, but this girl has some very developed ideas about what she's doing, which I appreciate-- she seems pretty mature for her age. I'm hoping I'll get the opportunity to get to know her. Thanks for the luck tho, I'll prob need it haha because I'm a 28 year old with the social skills of an autistic 9 year old, and the social graces of an armadillo. It's not an all-encompassing thing or a blanket rule, just a lot of them I have the overwhelming urge to slap into reality and shove their iphones somewhere unpleasant.
If she's mature, it could be totally fine. The troubles I've had have not stemmed from age difference as much as life stage. In my late 20s I've dated girls who are years younger than me, but we've gotten along well because we've been in the working world, on our own, for a while. But in my mid 20s I dated a girl who was just out of college, so only years younger than me so she was adjusting to life in a city, working a , living on her own, etc. Thanks-- glad to hear from an experienced perspective on this.
My boyfriend and I have exactly the same age difference I'm 20, hes 26 and it's the best relationship I've ever been in granted there has only been two, but whatever.
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If you have things in common, like any other couple, there's no reason it shouldn't work out. The law doesn't necessarily mean morally right either, considering it's different in other countries. By US standard and the way people react on reddit to relationships with people under 18, my country is full of rapists in their eyes. I wonder how this would hold up with a larger sample size and how much it varies regionally and culturally. Yeah i think that would be interesting. I did notice some differences with different ages and sexes, but too small of a sample for anything conclusive.
For me I think there's a big difference, but not really because of the age, but rather that she's still a junior in college. You and me both know that there's a pretty big maturity change that occurs when you're out of college working and still in college. For me personally, I dated a girl who was still in college while I was working.
I had to end it because it was really hard to connect to her on things. She still has a warped view of the world and also would care about a lot of things that really were hard to emphasize with because I was older. For example, she would still be telling me about professors who didn't grade her papers as high as she thought, while my concerns were being behind on rent payments.
I'm 26 and I wouldn't date a girl below age 21 just because that'd limit a lot of the stuff we could do together, but all in all I don't really see an issue with your situation. But like others have said, with her still being in college, your life experiences are going to be a little different.
She hasn't had all the experiences you've had, so my only advice would be to tread lightly at first and make sure communication stays open. I'm in a relationship with that exact age range so I don't think its wrong.
We never would have dated if we didn't work together for 3 months. It was an isolated job where we basically lived together with 3 other people very isolated so we got to know each other extremely well. We both resisted our feelings towards each other for several months. We've been together a year now Dec 20th was our first date and I've never had a single regret about it, never thought she's not mature enough.
It really depends on the girl and what your interested in. I honestly don't think it's a problem.
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I may be a little biased though, since that's the exact situation I am in with my girlfriend. We started going out when she was Admittedly it was somewhat awkward around her family, especially her older sisters who were friends of mine already. It's fine now though. Some people mostly lonely older women will try to give you shit about it. The best revenge is living well.
Your 50th anniversary would be you at 78 and her at That's totally inappropriate, what would the neighbours think? I'm 21, my boyfriend is I think it greatly depends on the people themselves and their maturity levels but if you pursue it, I suppose you'll know soon enough if your age difference causes any strain in the relationship.
IMO I don't think its inappropriate though. A friend of mine is also 22, has a boyfriend who is about seven years older than her, and they're going strong for many years now so it's definitely possible.
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My sister is 21 dating a guy your age, it seems to work for them but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't really wary of him when I first found out. I'm still not sure how a 28 year old and a 21 year old have much in common. That's a huge difference in life stages. In my sister's case, she's still in undergrad, her boyfriend has a master's, a grown up job and his own apartment and is financially independent.
As a 24 year old grad student I can't even imagine dating an undergrad, that's a huge difference in maturity and the life experiences are significantly different. I think dating someone out of school with a job would be hard too. Maybe not for some but I would feel guilty being poor and busy all the time.
Non-grad students don't really "get" how much of a commitment grad school is. I guess I would just think hard on this, you guys are in a different life stage it might be harder to relate to each other's experiences. Age differences aren't much difference when your both older but they are when you are younger and in a different life stage. My cousin is 28 and he's dating a 19 year old, people around me don't seem to have problems with it. Love has no age restriction I guess.
That's pushing it, but that's in the "it depends" zone. No reason not to go for it. Whatever jiggles your jello, man. Too big of an age gap to date? Too big of an age gap to have things in common? Not quite the same but I'm a 21 year old guy dating a 27 year old woman.