The longest being right now, I went on holiday during the Christmas holidays and he knew about it, even said he was sad I was leaving, but when I got back, not a peep! I am recently going through a divoice after 15 years of marriage. I have know this Man who is 11 years older than me for about 10 years. Well he is recently out of his releationship as I am mine. We hooked up and have been seeing each other causally for almost 3 months. We both decided that due to us just coming out of long releationshlips that we would just enjoy each others company.

I feel like I am the one always contacting him.

However he does respond to me each time I contact him quickly. But If I do not contact him first it can go a week with out contact. He seems happy to hear from he when I contact him. I guess I am confused. I do not know how to go about this since I have been out of practive for such a long time.

Should I just keep doing what I am doing and contact him first? Sometimes he does contact me first but it is rare. I do not want to come off as needy because I am not but I do like what we have going on and do not want to loose that. Any advise is appreciated. In the past he has been quite clear with the fact that he does like me. And still he keeps mentioning things like that certain songs or so reminds him of me.

He Seems Interested but Doesn't Text Me

We exchanged number 2 weeks ago and messages each other a couple of times in a sort of friendly, funny and a bit of flirty kind of way. Then a few days after I felt an impulse to ask him out and so I did. We met the day after, for the first time, in real life. It was quite nice. He seemed a bit shy but he was very attentive towards me and all. He hugged me when we met and he gave me a good bye hug. When I came home I started to think about what had happen. I started to fall for him badly, the more I thought about our meeting. But he logged out before I could reply.

Then the days passed by and I felt like crazy. I decided to send him a message telling ; that it was fun seeing each other and that we have to do it again sometime. No reply… but later that night he got online again and said he had gotten a message from me, but had troubles reading it as the display on his phone has broken down.

I told him what I had written about it was fun seeing each other and that we have to do it again….

If a Guy Doesn’t Call He’s Just Not That Into You…Or Is He?

I was expecting more enthusiasm. I just want him to be a close friend, you know hang out, do fun things together, laugh and just talk about anything. Because I feel open and impulsive and brave for the moment. So should I contact him again or should I just sit there and wait and wait and turning crazy in the process? How should I proceed from here? Mirabelle, you were in communication with this man for 8 years off and on, and he never asked to see you?

Any available man who had an interest would have met you within a few weeks not years! Stop nagging yourself over him, join an online dating site, and realize there is a sea of men out there looking for the right lady. I joined a Christian dating site and have had my pick of men. It certainly helps with withdrawals over the wrong man and those nagging thoughts where we blame ourselves for their fickleness!

Now I have a sweetie that I picked out from over six hundred profiles!

We have now been dating for two months and he calls every night. A real gentleman and so handsome!

If a Guy Doesn’t Call He’s Just Not That Into You…Or Is He?

You will find the right one too! If a shy guy talks about the past history of the two of you with you, does this means that he is still into you?

Hi, I am new to this site and have been reading some of the comments trying to find one similar to my own situation but I thought best to just submit my own. Basically I met a guy 4 years ago and not long after, he wound up going to prison for something he was later acquitted of. Anyway, I visited him throughout and assumed that we would be together when he came out.

However this wasnt the case as he felt he needed to focus on his life when he came out and work hard to accomplish himself and be at the stage he needs to be. He says he will soon be where he wants to be and at that point he could consider giving me what I need. He feels that he is not in a position to at the moment. Over the years we have come in and out of each others lives, him saying he will try harder to give me what I need but then it never seems to be enough. The truth is, I am ready to settle down now, I want to do it all with him; holidays, living together, marriage, children etc.

He has said in the past that I am too demanding, but I feel that I just know what I want and how I expect to be treated. I seem to have these ideals of how a man should treat a woman that he wants and respects. We recently regained contact and seeing him has brought all of my emotions to the surface again. I am trying so hard to remain cool and not call or message him but it hurts when I want to hear from him and I dont, when I want to see him but I cant. Should I continue to wait? I am being too demanding? Surely two adults who care so much about one another should just be able to express their emotions naturally without always being so concerned about how it will be perceived.

Thanks in advance for your responses. Either way, have a good time with him, but keep your options open for other guys. And that was really worth it? Thank you so much for saying exactly what I was thinking. He definitely got what he wanted…. Absolutely agree with you! She sounded pretty desperate especially considering how the guy behaved on the phone.

Get some self-respect girl!

If the time with him had been that great you guys would still be together. Calling him only delays the inevitable. I was really disappointed upon learning they were together for only a few months. As a woman, I want a guy who is as into me as I am into him.

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Just to add, but it seems that the whole article is just making excuses for the guy. And he did get to sleep with you. He added me to the whatsapp. He never talked to me. I noticed he was nervous but too close to me while sitting on the table. What do you think? So I noticed some of you mentioned rules and breaking rules.

What kind of rules are they and where can I find more information? I met this awesome, funny guy through a friend, we went out[ the 3 of us] a few times and then he asked me if i wanna go out with him. We went for a casual stroll in the park,we laughed, we really hit it off, he even looked on a compatibility site and we started laughing at how well our signs match. What is it about men?? I am going thru something similar! So I met a guy online, he was lovely and we spoke for three months without actually meeting.

We exchanged phone calls and texts daily and even regularly skyped.