Even with the evil step mother straight out of hello kitty we kept things together. It was only when I bombed my house did I finally lose her due to anxiety. I am wondering if house cameras would help the amxiety..? Hi, I need help. Ive been in three disasters of a relationship in the past 4 years.

They were really cruel and mentally abusive and one just completely lost interest in me, refused to tell me about it and just ignored me till I figured it out myself that the relationship was over. Ive started seeing a very wonderful man and l cant fault him in the least. I know this is probably not true and I am trying so hard to keep myself from either becoming too clingy or becoming aloof and im struggling to find a balance.

I really feel very down when I get these thoughts in my head..

I dont know if its something to be really concerned about but this is the most important thing in my life n i dont want this to go bad no matter what! After the second time hanging out, I suddenly got incredibly anxious ever since. Been asking myself what am I doing wrong? She has changed and I know she has but still I question everything she does or say. Which is driving my anxiety threw the roof now thinking is she seeing someone else while we are on a brake? Can someone please give me some advice? Or maybe medicine from the doctors?

I understand your anxiety, there is nothing quite like been cheated on by someone you love. There is literally no in-between. You can either forgive her and never mention it again, like it never even happened or you dont forgive her and break it off. My husband works in the Natural Gas industry.

We live in PA, and he transferred to New Mexico but flies home every two weeks. I was livid when he decided to transfer, we had just bought our home last year. I have always experienced a little anxiety with this man when he goes out of town for work. I want to call or text all the time but I resist because I know it just looks crazy.

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Cause this part time spouse thing is just not working. Sometimes I fantasize about his job getting cut and then he would be home all of the time. Sorry for the novel of a post…as you can tell I am having an anxiety induced crazy episode. Hello, I was wondering if anyone on here has any advice. She agreed, but it turns out that recently she had broke the promise, and she said that she, at the time, had been desperate to just stop me from being upset so agreed even though she was unsure.

She admitted she knew it would upset me — starting the roleplays romantic and sexual ones again, and she said she should have told me about it, but she had done it anyway. Then again, I feel like it is outside my boundaries of comfort — interacting with another person sexually just feels so wrong. I have a paranoid habit of checking on her friends accounts to see what she is up to, and sometimes get upset when I see she is liking things that are sexual.

Am I being unreasonable? I am so terrorfied of sex and terrorfied of her being aroused or feeling loved by what someone else sends her. Are you sure you have an actual phobia of sex or are you maybe close to being more asexual? I have struggled with toys same dilemma and finally have given up the idea of every wanting or being totally comfortable with it. I have met someone and been with him a few months but I feel that my issues are going to ruin things and push him away. I said does that mean I will never go to your house a minute later said good night.

I actually have physical painful attacks blood pressure up and done fainting and stomach problems all at once come at me out of blue causing sever pain. I told my friend I loved her and it was reciprocated…. I literally cannot think straight. I cannot stop my thoughts from running away with me. I never expected to feel like this and I think it might be easier being single!! Why do I go on you ask? Because I have been in love with this man for 20 years, he may not reciprocate the way I want him to, but we still spend 2 days a week together, every week.

I pray so hard, that is not the case. But I really have no control.

I need to stop these irrational fears of mine, no matter how rational they feel at the time. Ive never been in a relationship before im 17 and a boy asked me out it makes me so uncomfortable to think about that because i dont know how to do a relationship and it scares me bc hes had many before and idk what to do. I recently accepted that I have quite a bad case of anxiety, when in a committed relationship. And when it did blow up I had to help my Mum through her suicidal thoughts. Hi, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 8 years and we have been fighting for a two months prior to me being diagnosed with Generalized anxiety disorder.

I am a very sensitive person and take things to the heart easily and we have had some huge issues. The year has been very stressful for me, I have started a new job, not really happy there and my boss I honestly hate. I have no excitement but I can feel happiness. I also get stressed easily and over obsess about everything and overthink almost everything.. Hey there Lauren, I am currently going through the same situation as you! For me this anxiety comes and goes. I question whether I think about him enough or if I love him as much as he loves me.

I would suggest for you to look at yourself and reflect on what is truly bothering you about the relationship. I suggest to try to talk to him about the issue, it will ease your anxiety. We were together for another year and 6 months before I finally decided to make the break. I am now dating my best friend — have been for about a month. He is the perfect guy for me, but recently these feelings have returned.

Im petrified that Im going to make myself as miserable as I did when I was with my first boyfriend and destroy the relationship. Is there any advice you can give? This anxiety has caused my relationship to go downhill but I am slowly getting better and we are building it up again. A few tips, look within yourself.

Have you reached the ultimate comfort-ability with your partner? I used to make my partner my whole world instead of part of my world and realised it was extremely unhealthy and wearing us both down, but trying to get to that mature and healthy relationship we both want has caused this anxiety.

Just remember to persevere. Any advice is appreciated, I just need a little help with this…. I was in a very loving relationship that was great until one day she broke up with me for no apparent reason she wanted to see if she could do it. Ever since then relationships make me nervous lose my appetite and now it is very hard for me to trust people I am in relationships with. It is also difficult for me to find someone after that incident. Hi Someone once told me something that made sense in many, many ways.

The day that sex became more easy to find, love the right partner became harder to find. The true test will be to withhold that side of the relationship. If it breaks, you know it was not the right one. If someone is willing to wait for sex, and first focus on building the relationship, and get to know each other, it is meant to be.

But even that could have its challenges. Do not hump like bunnies from the start, give yourselves time to grow. Nothing good comes easy. From hard work and conforming to each other will write your chapter together. Most important, be able to compromise. Without this, a relationship is not worth building on. Both parties must be able to put in effort.

Effort should also not be something that should be constant.