It has a lot to do with the mom too. If she expects me to be the new daddy, no way. For instance, right now I would see a single dad as a dealbreaker. But perhaps by 30 I may not. I imagine the men who are more willing are those most receptive towards children. Single mothers naturally have it harder because the men they meet are dating both mother and children, which can often times be a deal breaker because they're literally courting baggage.

Judging by myself and my peers I am 24 , young 20s single moms is an absolute no go. All times are GMT The time now is The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number. Contact Us - LoveShack.

Add Thread to del. Dating Dating, courting, or going steady? Things not working out the way you had hoped? Stand up on your soap box and let us know what's going on! Page 1 of Originally Posted by MJ2 How do you feel about dating us?? On a mote of dust suspended in a sunbeam. More likely, it would be something that I only intended to keep going for a short period of time, Because: I hate kids 2.

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I like a girl who isn't tied down to the point where she can't be spontaneous. The idea of raising another man's children to the woman he bore them from just seems a lot like losing the game of Darwinism. I would be OK with it as long as she could get a sitter so we could go out on a date or something. I voted "it depends.. I voted C, but there is a I see nothing wrong with dating a single mom. I want to be a father someday. Not saying I'd only date single moms, but definitely not a immediate turnoff.

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To the contrary, my job is to make it easy to both date me and be a parent. If you were a single mom, would you want to date one of these guys, knowing what he thinks of you? It would be too much drama.

I would rather for her to reconcile with her baby's father if he is still alive I agree, then I disagree. I think it has to do a lot with the circumstances. For instance, say she married 21 and her babies dad joined the military and died.

Its not like she "effed" him, considering they were married. Which makes her widowed under Besides you have some women who are something and have kids out of wedlock, age doesn't qualify you for anything.

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Any single mother that is worth anything would be the one who is selective and careful who she calls a boyfriend or anything else for that matter. For all you bitter, immature, judgmental boys I hope you moms and sisters don't get a divorce and end up with a guy like you. I think this is very age-related. In your teens and early 20's, most people swear they never ever want kids and would never ever date someone who has them. This changes for a lot of people as they mature. I think dating someone with kids is highly situational.

At my age, for instance, I don't expect anyone to financially take care of my child or be a daddy. She is mine, my responsibility. I don't let her even meet guys until there is enough time and stability in the relationship; my current boyfriend just met my daughter after dating for 6 months.

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Also, I have a very fortunate relationship with my ex-husband in that he doesn't interfere in my life and we are friends. Never say never; where you are now isn't where you will be in a few years. If you don't want to date single mothers, don't. But don't lump us all together negatively; each situation is different. Would you date a single mother? This doesn't necessarily apply to teen mothers under the age of I mean mothers who are in the early 20s to 40s. Or will feel that the stress of her being a mother will take away from the intimate time that you and her would have?

My step-father for example dated my mother for 4 years after asking her to marry him. They have a pretty stable relationship and balance things out like any other married couple. He loved kids so me and him were close when I was younger and they had my brother who is now I asked a group of guys on my college campus how they'll feel dating a single mother and their responses were horrendous.

Probably because I expected something different. Those statements bothered me in so many ways. To assume that if a young woman gets pregnant she is automatically a "dirty slut" is like stereotyping single moms. While the other group of guys said that they wouldn't care. They would date a woman based on how beautiful she is, her intelligence and the funniest one was her skills in bed. That was me asking a young crowd of guys most under 30 years old. So, what do you think? Depends on the woman and circumstances.

Probably later on in life. No way, no how! Select age and gender to cast your vote: Thanks for the honesty people. I would like to point out that I've seen some harsh comments and answers here and there, but everyone is entitled to an opinion. Do you view loner as a red flag? Why do girls like to be percieved as princesses? Girls, Ladies, which of these men would you rather date by looks? What Guys Said Yes, I would date her. Don't see a real reason on why I wouldn't. I think I'm too young for that unless I really fell in love with her.

But now I have a girlfriend and I love her. What Girls Said 5. Curious to see all the responses. Why are Beautiful Women Insecure? How I Maintain Independence: Remain Empowered Have you ever asked yourself: Silva says you should also consider how involved your partner will be willing to be after meeting your child.

Kate Hudson gave birth to her first son, Ryder, when she was If you had a child with someone you broke up with, learning how to co-parent will keep things positive and avoid any drama with new dating prospects who enter your life.

Stay focused on the kids. If something seems too good to be true, it probably is. Share Facebook Pinterest Twitter Tumblr. Stop Swiping to Find Dates. Look for Prospects IRL.