However there were a few people I wanted to see so I decided to go. It was a weekend-long event, Friday night was a dinner and a meet and greet. I had checked in and caught up with a few friends and that was when I saw Heidi and she looked incredible. She still had the body of an athlete, but had grown her hair out and had a tribal tattoo on her shoulder. We spoke briefly at first but ended up seated next to each other at the same table for dinner and talked for a long time and even flirted a bit.

I had thought about Heidi over the years, maybe as the one who had gotten away. The second day was a family friendly day with activities for kids, I had brought my daughter for two reasons. All Heidi asked me was whether me and her Mom were still together and I said no.

There was a break for a few hours in the afternoon and I took my daughter back to her Mom and went to my hotel. I was between apartments at the time and living on the road anyway so I had booked a room for the weekend. I saw Heidi swimming in the pool in a bikini and thought I was back in high school from the staring I was doing. Her body was very toned. I went to the dinner that night for my reunion, dancing was strictly frowned upon at the high school so for the reunion it was the same. Heidi sat with me again, this time in a tighter and a bit more revealing dress.

We talked for a bit and then went out into the hall for privacy and I pulled her into a kiss. I told her I had been wanting to do that since High School and Heidi smiled a bit and kissed me back. She told me I had had a shot with her in High School but never taken it and she had also known full well I had nailed her best friend early in our senior year but she said Susan was not here.

She then asked me back to her hotel room. What sexual behaviors took place e. How did you feel during it?

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Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner s? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Heidi unbuttoned my shirt and then asked me to help her out of her dress.

I like undressing women so I unzipped her dress and kissed the back of her neck and did it slowly. She was standing there in her bra and panties and I noticed a number of scars on her right arm and side and asked about them. This upset her a bit, I had forgotten she had been in a car wreck that had killed her grandmother junior year. We started making out and I worked her back to the bed. Her bra did not stay on long and I pulled her panties off shortly after and finished undressing myself. I licked and sucked her breasts, I like boobs and will not apologize for it, and Heidi liked it.

Heidi then said she wanted me inside her. I put a condom on at this point and penetrated her. We were in missionary which is difficult for me due to a back injury I suffered a few years back. Heidi could tell I was struggling and asked if we switched positions would that help. We switched to girl on top which is my favorite and Heidi brought my hands to her hips and then rode me.

Heidi was eager, enthusiastic, and a bit more experienced than I thought she would be. I orgasmed a few minutes later and ejaculated and Heidi rode me another two minutes or so before stopping. She then leaned forward and kissed me, climbed off me and we settled in to cuddle for a while. Heidi told me it was very difficult for her to orgasm.

About an hour later she gave me oral and I came again but we fell asleep soon after. The next morning we awoke early and I was determined to give Heidi an orgasm. She said she was not fond of receiving oral so I fingered her a bit and then mounted her and ignored my back but Heidi did orgasm this time.

She is truly a great lover.

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What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I used condoms to be safe, even though Heidi said she was on the pill. Heidi was someone I had wanted to be with since I was Were alcohol or drugs involved?

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And pathetic insecurity makes many a partner hot…. Taylor July 22, , 9: SpaceySteph July 22, , Completely agree with this being a grey area. Handing over his passwords as an effort to regain trust, now he has the reasonable expectation that she would look if she felt threatened, and she has the reasonable expectation that she can look without him getting angry that she snooped. Until he got untrustworthy again, but that is a problem in itself. I am the LW. He knows me and he knows that I will look from time to time just to make sure things continue on the up and up.

Lindsay July 22, , Lately, I am baffled by some of the responses to my posts. This one especially though seemed gender nuetral to me… I even deliberately used vague pronouns. My advice would be the exact same if a man had written in with this letter… I despise snooping and it is the biggest turn off to me ever… Those that do it ONLY succeed in driving their mates away…. I commented only on her actions — snooping. Which is profoundly unsexy and turns no one — male or female — on…. Christy July 22, , Nothing turns me on MORE than when my gf does some particularly good snooping.

But only of someone else. I kid, I kid.

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I think people are just playing into typical BGM tropes. Amanda July 22, , Mark, I agree with you completely. Snooping is NOT a method to employ when there are trust issues in a relationship.

Clearly, the LW and her husband never addressed the trust issues that they had prior to getting married, so they need to address them now. Hmm, I think I agree with this. First of all, if you were shady and knew your partner was reading your e-mails, you could just get a secret email, or delete everything. You missed my point completely.

Seriously, I think you should MOA.